Murder Grief 

"Learn How to Cope with Murder Grief and start Your Recovery from suffering a Major Loss"

"Discover a Revolutionary New Approach that will help You heal from the loss of a loved one due to Murder and get Your Life back on track"

From the desk of Maurice Turmel PhD 

Dear Friend,

• Are You feeling overwhelmed by the emotional effects of having lost a loved one due to murder?
• Are You feeling angry, anxious, depressed or hurt as a result of this trauma?
• Are You looking for help to deal with your feelings of murder grief?
• Are You ready to begin your murder grief recovery so you can get your life back on track?

Murder grief may be somewhat different to deal with than suicide grief, because the answer to “why” always points to a third party rather than the deceased individual.  Otherwise, the difference is akin to being hit in the head with a 5 pound hammer as opposed to a 10 pound hammer.  Either of these will cause a lot of damage.  The question of “why”, in this case, leads us to try and understand the killer’s motivation which rarely delivers a satisfactory answer. 

Murder has its own attendant shock response.  The event is sudden, unexpected and horrifying.  What only happens on television or other families has now struck home for our family.  It all seems surreal.  In the early stages the news seems unbelievable. How could it be that someone we love has been killed by another person? For these and other reasons, murder grief presents its own level of difficulties to be overcome. 

Like a car accident resulting in death, the reality of murder delivers a powerful blow to surviving loved ones.  It knocks us to our knees and leaves us baffled.  Who would do such a thing to someone we love?  It seems so alien to us that the reality takes some time to sink in.  I dealt with several cases of murder in my 25 year career as a therapist.  Each of these incidents presented a level of difficulty that no other grief experience could match.   

My first case of murder grief involved a man in his late thirties who came to see me accompanied by his second wife.  His first wife, whom he had divorced, and their 2 children, had been murdered by her second husband.  The children, a boy and a girl, were 8 and 10 years old at the time.  It took a few years of working with this man to finally bring him to a satisfactory level of acceptance and peace. 

The second case I encountered involved a woman in her forties whose husband had been shot to death by a neighbour.  In addition to dealing with the murder, she had also learned that her deceased husband had been making advances to the neighbour’s wife.  This proved to be a double blow for her.  Not only did she have to deal with murder grief, but also with the reality that her husband had probably been unfaithful. 

The third case I want to mention had a more personal relevance to me and my extended family.  A first cousin, aged 22 at the time, had been stabbed to death on a local beach.  Her assailant had struck while she was sunbathing and likely asleep.  At the time of this incident, this perpetrator was out on bail for some other act of violence. This event shook our whole family, especially my aunt and her daughters who were directly impacted.  We were all thrust into the reality that a family member had actually been murdered for no reason at all, except being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Losing a loved one to murder is horrific. 

Accidental death of any kind is much easier to deal with.  The problem with murder is that someone else made the decision to take an innocent life.  In our family’s case it was a completely random act. The perpetrator was not known to the victim, or vice versa, something he readily admitted during the trial. 

The shock of losing someone to murder takes hold immediately and leaves family members totally bewildered.  The question of “why” comes up, of course, but is usually directed at the killer rather than the victim. Sometimes we may ask "why" our loved one put themselves in a vulnerable position, but ultimately the "why" is directed to the perpetrator. People hope that by understanding the killer’s motivation, they can make sense of their loved one’s demise.  Until then, shock prevails while murder grief recovery is set aside. Satisfactory answers to one's questions about "why" are rarely available.

 Appeals to Persons of All Faiths

"Even though references to God are Christian in tone, 'How to Cope with Grief and Loss' will appeal to persons of many faiths suffering the experience of loss.  These stories are simple and hold interest, offering much comfort, insight and motivation to share one's grief, that being essential to the healing process."  Father Gilbert Gariepy, Chaplain Services, Health Sciences Centre, Winnipeg, Manitoba

Losing a Loved One is Tragic

"The loss of a loved one is such a tragic event.  This collection of stories presents Love and Hope in support of your Grief Recovery."  Cheryl Lasson - Lost Her Twin Sister

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In case #1 mentioned earlier, the father of those 2 children actually visited the killer in prison in the hopes of getting answers to that very question.  He thought a face to face meeting would bring him some closure.  Sadly, he came away from the encounter just as confused as ever.  Talking to the killer only confirmed what the psychiatry report and my own assessment had already concluded.  The killer was a mentally disturbed individual who had descended into paranoia and delusional thinking upon hearing that his wife wanted to leave him.  He snapped and became a family annihilator.  

There is rarely any satisfaction derived from such meetings and they rarely contribute to one's grief recovery. The motives that drive people to murder are simply not understandable to the average person who would never consider such an action.  As soon as this is realized and accepted, survivors can move out of shock and into the process of grieving. 

The same holds true for revenge fantasies and the pursuit of justice and punishment.  Although some satisfaction will be derived from a guilty verdict, the need to take care of one’s grieving process remains the same.  The process of murder grief recovery still awaits. When all is said and done through the justice system, surviving family members still have to engage in grief recovery. 

Permission to Feel

"These stories and reflections give us permission to express our feelings of grief and loss overtly.  They are therapeutic, written in simple fashion, appealing to men, women and children, who have found themselves in the circumstance of grieving, with a wounded heart.  Thank you Dr. Turmel for sharing your own heart with us."  Sister Evelyn Bastien - Longeuil, Quebec

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Acquire your copy of "How to Cope with Grief and Loss" Audio Ebook to help you deal with your feelings and emotions. You may never have a satisfactory answer to "why" this happened? But you can enter the world of grieving your loss and begin to heal.  Don’t try and tough this one out, you’ll only become more depressed as a result. And do not rely on cliches, spiritual or otherwise; they provide little comfort and leave you feeling even more lost. Give yourself every opportunity to heal and gain acceptance over an event to which you had no control.

"With the right kind of help, absolutely anyone can recover from the effects involved in murder grief . . .
... and be stronger for having done so!"

"How to Cope with Grief and Loss" requires you to suspend any previous ideas about how you should handle the grieving process.  Your feelings are your main guide through this healing experience and will be your main area of focus.

The stories, poems, reflections and music selections contained in this Audio Ebook are designed to put you in touch with your feelings.  As each piece is read, listened to and digested, you are ready to start journaling and put those feelings down on paper.  This is where your grief recovery begins in earnest.

Your heart, your feelings, and your growing self-awareness are the keys to helping you heal your broken heart. You will travel this path with significantly less stress as a result. No, it's not easy, but it is a journey that can be won.  Many have done so using this approach and so can You!

"How to Cope with Grief and Loss" is a guide to your Inner Self, to that place where the hurt and pain reside.  It is here that the healing must take place.  The healing process doesn't happen all at once. But each time you access your inner self and experience your feelings, you will be releasing tension and emotional stress. Before you know it, your grief wound starts to heal.  You will begin feeling the difference almost immediately.

 

"This approach to murder grief has been born out of personal experience and more than 25 years of clinical practice." 

"Tried, tested and drawn from years in the consulting room, this approach to Murder Grief is available now"

 

"How to Cope with Grief and Loss" is being made available for the first time on the Internet in an easy downloadable audio ebook format with embedded mp3 narration. Once you download your copy, you will discover exactly what you need to start your grief recovery. There is no reason to go on suffering as you have, waiting for time to take care of the matter. You can access these tools right now and be back on your feet before you know it.

And you will learn...

• Recovering from Murder Grief is a personal and intimate process.
• All emotional wounds can be healed through journaling, listening and sharing your thoughts and feelings with trusted family and friends.
• You can get your life back on track more quickly with these tools than through other methods.
• You will never forget your murdered loved one and you will realize that your love for them lives on in your heart.
• You can forgive yourself and your loved one for what could have or should have been, but was not accomplished.
• You get to know yourself better and gain confidence from the fact you have mastered one of life's most difficult challenges.
• Personal growth and transformation can come as a result of tragedy.
• With the right tools you can move through murder grief in a healthy and safe manner and heal your broken heart.

And you'll also learn what is truly important in life, because your heart and feeling center will inform you about your passions, your creativity and your true purpose in life. These are just some of the gifts traveling the path of murder grief recovery can provide.

"Start your healing now! Give yourself permission to feel...

... and learn how you can mend your heart and get your life back on track"

"How to Cope with Grief and Loss" is exclusively available on the Internet.  I've been developing this manuscript for over 12 years. Prior to this launch, I took the additional step of recording every chapter and adding the audio narration to the ebook so you can experience the full breadth of its benefits. I've also added music selections that underscore healing and grief recovery experiences. This is a multi-media interactive tool that gets results.

In terms of your recovery, it will be like having access to a  therapist whenever you need comfort, support and direction.

So don't delay your healing any longer.  Give yourself permission to recover and start feeling better TODAY!

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This 18 minute professionally produced grief recovery program features Dr Maurice Turmel as narrator with original music and sound effects score by Ken Johnson, Solo Pianist and Recording Artist. This soothing and relaxing program can be listened to over and over whenever you feel overwhelmed by stress or just want to feel at peace with yourself. Works extremely well while in a quiet state, whether you are soaking in a tub, lying on a sofa or relaxing at the beach.

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The choice is yours: Do you want to tough this out on your own and hang on to those tired and worn cliches such as "time heals all"? Do you want to spend thousands of dollars trying a variety of other methods that only mask what you feel?  Or do you want to give yourself the best advantage for your Grief and Loss Recovery at a price you can afford and at a pace that will get you there sooner rather than later?

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To your recovery,

Maurice Turmel PhD

Remember, 

I do know how you feel. I know the process of grief recovery and healing inside out. You will start to feel better as soon as you begin reading "How to Cope with Grief and Loss" and listening to the accompanying narration and music. Just follow the process and give yourself permission to heal.

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