My name is Maurice Turmel, and I know how you feel.  On the scale of stressful life events, relationship grief is one of the top three.  Losing a significant relationship in your life is tantamount to a death.  It is the death of an "Us" that once was full of hope and promise and is now completely shattered. Complications arise if your former wife, husband or partner left you for someone else. Your self-esteem takes an even bigger blow under these circumstances.

Breaking up with your lover, partner or spouse is a major event in your life. Some would argue that the consequences are not much different than losing a loved one through death. A relationship breakup is a death, the death of possibilities, a future full of promise and plans that were evolved during your better days together. Feelings of loss, sadness and grief are common to the experience. What you go through is a period of mourning and bereavement over the death of possibilities.

The "Us" that constituted your relationship has suffered a fatal blow. As with any instance of loss we are left feeling bewildered and confused.

If you’re the one who initiated the breakup, then you may have feelings of guilt. You’ve noticed a change in your feelings toward your partner or spouse. You’ve been feeling more and more estranged from them. You’ve started to dream about a life on your own, or with someone else. You feel guilty because you know your partner will be hurt. You’ve already been grieving this relationship for some time prior to informing your partner of your decision.

If you’re the one who was left, then you are feeling abandoned and lost. You can’t believe what is happening and you’re scrambling to try and fix it. What you don’t yet realize is that your partner is already gone, mentally, spiritually and even physically. Your grieving is about to begin, but not before you move heaven and earth to try and save what is already over.

I wrote "How to Cope with Grief and Loss" as a response to the various types of losses my clients were bringing to the consulting room. Addressing relationship grief was particularly poignant because of its complex nature. It is a vastly different experience for the one being left then the one doing the leaving. However, at the core of every loss experience lies an emotional component which seems to get the least amount of attention in most approaches to relationship grief. This book addresses that component directly and with the utmost respect and sympathy. Here's what one reader has to say:

My Favorite Book on the Grieving Process

"I have read several books on grief and loss and I can safely say that "How to Cope with Grief and Loss" has been my number one source of consolation.  This book is easy to read and struck many chords for me.  In fact, I saw myself in so many of the stories, I felt the book had been written just for me."
Mrs. A. Richard, Ontario Canada.

"How to Cope with Grief and Loss - Support, Guidance and Direction for Your Healing Journey" answers all of your questions about Relationship Grief and more"

This Innovative Audio-Ebook has already helped many individuals grieving a lost relationship and I know it can help YOU!

Here's what you need to know about me . . .

• I have a PhD in Counseling Psychology, along with an M.A. and B.A. in Psychology for a total of 9 years of University training.
• I have 25 years experience as a practicing therapist, helping individuals and families deal with all kinds of losses, including the loss of a husband, wife or partner through accident, murder and suicide.
• My grief podcasts, articles and radio show interviews are regularly featured on Self-Growth.com, EzineArticles.com, Holistic Junction.com, Helium.com, ArticleBase.com, LearnOutLoud.com, GoArticles.com, BlogTalkRadio.com, Live365Radio.com, AchieveRadio.com and The Personal Growth Advisor.com, to name but a few.
• I have appeared on numerous regional and national television programs to answer questions regarding grief and loss recovery.

Women, more than men, usually initiate a breakup. Lack of affection, lack of attention, lack of sharing and similar issues have brought them to this stage. In my practice I saw more men than women in the state of panic after a breakup. They were in "repair" mode all of a sudden, and were pulling out all the stops to try and prevent their partner from leaving. They claimed to be ready to change their behavior, go to counseling or see a minister, all the things their wife or partner had been asking for up to this final point. Sadly, for these men, it was already too late.

Men leave relationships as well, but less frequently than women. Regardless of who initiates the breakup, there will be grieving for both parties. In my practice, I saw both sides of the story, bewildered men and women trying to save their relationship not realizing it was already too late. If infedelity was the issue, then the hurt was amplified by betrayal. Whatever the circumstances, both parties needed to engage in relationship grief recovery.

With gay couples, the experience is much the same. Being left causes deep hurt. Being the one leaving also brings on hurt, but relief as well, and of course, guilt. For the person leaving, the relationship has been over for some time. Bringing the matter to a head constitutes a first step in their healing journey. For the one being left, their relationship grief journey has just begun.

An Exceptionally Inspiring Book

"Dr. Maurice Turmel has written an exceptionally inspiring book for those experiencing the grieving process, and for the general reader as well.  Filled with inspirational stories, poetry and music, "How to Cope with Grief and Loss" is more than just a book, it is an interactive experience that will raise your spirits.  Dr. Turmel has the knack of hitting just the right note at just the right time.  I truly enjoyed this work. It is a gem that you can refer back to again and again when you're feeling low, or when you need a spiritual lift."  Kenneth Maclean, author "The Vibrational Universe"  http://www.kmaclean.com

Wonderful Stories of Hope and Healing

"Wonderful stories of hope and healing, told with a simple wisdom. Dr. Turmel presents us with a difficult topic, and addresses grieving with an uplifting and inspirational voice."   Stone Wallace, Author

Whether you’re the one initiating or the one who was left, there will be grieving to do. As already mentioned, a relationship breakup is like a death. Some would say that dealing with the death of a loved one might be easier because you know you will not see them again. In a breakup situation there will be property, children and a whole host of matters to deal with which means regular contact for some time to come. And that contact brings the most pain for the one who was left.

My first marriage ended this way. My young wife was unhappy in our relationship and became involved with another man. One day announced she was leaving. We had two small children. I was devastated by the news. She was the one relieved about leaving. It took me 3 years to get over that loss. If it hadn’t been for the children, I would have recovered much sooner. Not having access to my children on a daily basis broke my heart. It was the single most devastating aspect of the breakup.

I had some help in terms of group counseling, but nothing akin to what is available today. If I knew then what I know now about relationship grief, I would have recovered in a matter of months, and not years. I needed to do some personal self-esteem work and my group experience helped with that. In the end the breakup and search for approprate relationship grief help drove me to become a therapist. For that outcome, I am eternally grateful.

I know what you’re going through. Sadness, guilt, remorse, "questioning what could I have done differently".  Such thoughts and feelings run through your mind one after the other. Obsessions, feelings of panic and disorientation are all part of the breakup experience. You will have to deal with your feelings now. If that’s alien to you then you have quite a challenge ahead. If you’ve been through a loss before, then you might have an advantage in terms of knowing what needs to be done to get yourself back on track.

Once you are ready to engage your relationship grief your recovery can begin. You will need help to get through this. Your friends and family can be great supports, but not if they’re in the business of bashing your former mate. That’s why a divorce or grief group that deals with relationship breakup could be beneficial for a balanced approach. Adding a good grief resource such as "How to Cope with Grief and Loss" will take you further and provide the ongoing guidance and support you will need to get through your recovery process.

Different Kinds of Loss

"There are many different kinds of loss. We must go through different stages of grieving to heal our hearts.  In the book, "How to Cope with Grief and Loss", Dr. Turmel opens the door to the heart with his amazing way of delivering stories to put us on the path of healing. The way he explains and guides us on the path of grief is a blessing that suggests Angels and God showed him the way.  This Audio Ebook is a true gift for anyone who's heart is grieving and looking to heal."
Carol Guy, Angelic Counselor and Author    http://www.carolguy.com

Our approach to relationship grief recovery meets all the important requirements and was born of 40 years of personal and 25 years of professional experience. Contrary to popular belief, therapists go through the same pain and suffering as everyone else when dealing with relationship grief. Knowing what to do does not make the process any less painful, but it does make it easier and the recovery takes less time. Grieving is universal. Recovering from a relationship breakup requires the right kind of support and material resources. Do yourself a favor and reach for what you need. If you've been beating yourself up, stop now! This a time to be kind to yourself and to affirm that you deserve whatever help you need.

What do you need to do for your grief recovery? 

Acquire your copy of "How to Cope with Grief and Loss" Audio Ebook to help you deal with your feelings and emotions. You may never have a satisfactory answer to why your relationship failed, but you can heal your relationship grief.  Don’t try and tough this out on your own, you’ll only become more depressed and despondent as a result.  You may have self-esteem issues to deal with along with your relationship grief. So give yourself every opportunity to heal and gain acceptance over a situation that did not work out, for whatever reason.

"With the right kind of help, absolutely anyone can recover from the effects of Relationship Grief . . .
... and be stronger for having done so!"

"How to Cope with Grief and Loss" requires you to suspend any previous ideas about how you should handle the relationship grief process.  Your feelings are your main guide through this healing experience, and will be your main area of focus as you follow the stories and do the recommended journaling exercises.

The stories, poems, reflections and music selections contained in this Audio Ebook are designed to put you in touch with your feelings.  As each piece is read, listened to and digested, you are ready to start journaling and put those feelings down on paper.  This is where your grief recovery begins in earnest.

Your heart, your feelings, and your growing self-awareness are the keys to helping you heal your broken heart. You will travel this path with significantly less stress as a result. No, it's not easy, but it is a journey that can be won.  Many have done so using this approach and so can You!

"How to Cope with Grief and Loss" is a guide to your Inner Self, to that place where the hurt and pain reside.  It is here that the healing must take place.  The healing process doesn't happen all at once. But each time you access your inner self and experience your feelings, you will be releasing tension and emotional stress. Before you know it, your relationship grief wound will start to heal.  You will begin feeling the difference almost immediately.

"This approach to grief recovery has been born out of personal experience and more than 25 years of clinical practice." 

"Tried, tested and drawn from years in the consulting room, this approach to Grief and Loss Recovery is available now"

 

"How to Cope with Grief and Loss" is being made available for the first time on the Internet in an easy downloadable audio ebook format with embedded mp3 narration. Once you download your copy, you will discover exactly what you need to start your grief recovery. There is no reason to go on suffering, waiting for time to take care of the matter. You can access these tools now and be back on your feet before you know it.

And you will learn...

• Recovering from relationship grief is a personal and intimate process.
• All emotional wounds can be healed through journaling, listening and sharing your thoughts and feelings with trusted friends and loved ones.
• You can get your life back on track more quickly with these tools than through other methods.
• You will get over the loss of this relationship and you will realize that it had a number of significant flaws that could not be fixed.
• You can forgive yourself and your former partner for what could have been, but was not accomplished.
• You get to know yourself better and gain confidence from the fact you have mastered one of life's most difficult challenges.
• Personal growth and transformation can come as a result of tragedy.
• With the right tools you can move through the relationship grief process in a healthy and safe manner and heal your broken heart.

And you'll also learn what is truly important in life, because your heart and feeling center will inform you about your passions, your creativity and your true purpose in life. These are just some of the gifts traveling the path of relationship grief recovery can provide.

"Start your healing now! Give yourself permission to feel...

... and learn how you can mend your heart and get your life back on track"

"How to Cope with Grief and Loss" is exclusively available on the Internet.  I've been developing this manuscript for over 12 years. Prior to this launch, I took the additional step of recording every chapter and adding the audio narration to the ebook so you can experience the full breadth of its benefits. I've also added music selections that underscore healing and grief recovery experiences. This is a multi-media interactive tool that gets results.

In terms of your recovery, it will be like having access to a  therapist whenever you need comfort, support and direction.

 

So don't delay your healing any longer.  Give yourself permission to recover and start feeling better TODAY!

"How to Cope with Grief and Loss" the Audio Ebook, is regularly priced at $37.00. You may purchase the book today for only $27.00 and receive the following FREE Bonuses.

 

These three additional Bonuses valued at $69 are yours FREE, just for trying this Revolutionary Audio Ebook!

 

Bonus #1: "Heroic Journeys" Guided Meditation Program - mp3 audio

This 18 minute professionally produced grief recovery program features Dr Maurice Turmel as narrator with original music and sound effects score by Ken Johnson, Solo Pianist and Recording Artist. This soothing and relaxing program can be listened to over and over whenever you feel overwhelmed by stress or just want to feel at peace with yourself. Works extremely well while in a quiet state, whether you are soaking in a tub, lying on a sofa or relaxing at the beach.

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Bonus #3: "Grief and Loss" Radio Interview

This 1 hour professionally prepared Radio Interview features Michael Keyes, musician and speaker, interviewing Dr Turmel for the Matrix Media Internet Radio Network out of Chicago on the topic of Grief and Loss Recovery.  This interview was widely advertised on their terrestrial radio network and aired weekly on WebTalkRadio.net for the first 4 months of 2008. It has also been a featured podcast on LearnOutLoud.com since that time.

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If you're not 100% sure that this grief recovery program is exactly what you need to get your life back on track, then let me put you completely at ease with our Unconditional Guarantee...

Just tell me one thing I can do to improve this book and I will send you an immediate refund. I'll even let you keep the $69.00 worth of bonuses as my thanks for giving "How to Cope with Grief and Loss" a try.

The choice is yours: Do you want to tough this out on your own and hold on to those tired and worn cliches such as "time heals all"? Do you want to spend thousands of dollars trying a variety of other methods that only mask what you feel?  Or do you want to give yourself the best advantage for your Relationship Grief recovery at a price you can afford and at a pace that suits you and gets you there sooner rather than later?

It's that simple.

"Your Recovery Starts Today!"

Yes, working through relationship grief does not happen overnight, but this approach to recovery is measured in months, and not years, as is the case with traditional methods. If you are seeing a counselor, which is certainly not discouraged, your recovery time will be shortened by the inclusion of "How to Cope with Grief and Loss" in your recovery program. You will recover faster and you will start to feel results almost immediately.

Take advantage of this Limited Time Special Offer and Start Your Relationship Grief Recovery Now!

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Once you place your order, you'll receive instructions within 5 minutes for downloading your Audio Ebook directly to your computer.

To your recovery,

Maurice Turmel PhD

Please Remember, 

- I do know how you feel. I know the process of grief recovery and healing inside out. You will start to feel better as soon as you begin reading "How to Cope with Grief and Loss" and listening to the accompanying narration and music. Just follow the process and give yourself permission to heal.

- There are 3 FREE Bonuses attached to this product.  They offer additional comfort, guidance and information to help you address all kinds of loss issues in your life.

- Our 100% money back guarantee. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.

 

 

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